When negotiating, use the flinch

by on February 1, 2013 · 0 Comment POSTED IN: Top Sales Dog

One good way to get more at the bargaining table is to flinch – react with surprise – when you are on the receiving end of a proposal.

When people make you a proposal they are watching closely for your reaction. In fact, they may not expect you to go along with their request – but they are throwing something out to see what your reaction will be. Some examples:

  • You sell computer systems and the buyer asks you to include a service agreement.
  • You sell building supplies and the contractor wants you to deliver to the job site free of charge.
  • You’re selling a warehouse and the buyer wants to move in a month ahead of the closing date.

If you don’t flinch, the other side will invariably think this way: “I didn’t expect them to go along with it, but maybe they will. I’ll push more to see how far I can get.”

Most people believe what they see more than what they hear. If you don’t show surprise, you are communicating that the concession is possible – even if you say otherwise.

Source: Roger Dawson in “Secrets of Power Negotiating.”

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